You can use text messages in so many different ways to show your man you’re thinking about him: flirty texts (ideas in this post), thoughtful texts, sexy texts, picture messages, and love text messages.
This post will give you some ideas and different ways you can use love text messages to let your man know how much you care about him.
Although all the reasons we give are good times to send texts, it’s important to set a rhythm for texting. You don’t want to overdo it by regularly sending him more texts than he sends you. You can potentially suffocate him by doing this. Checking out this guide will help. With that in mind, here are some examples of great times to send love text messages and what to say when you do.
1. When you know that he feels bad.
It is important that you send your man a love text message so that he knows you are thinking about him when he feels bad. When people are sad, they tend to withdraw. Reaching out to him at this time probably means a lot to him. Your husband needs your support. Don’t judge him. But let him know that you can listen if he wants to talk. Tell him you are there for him, and ask what you can do to help.
Sample Texts:
- I don’t blame you for feeling sad right now.
- You are not alone.
- I care about you.
- I will hug you tightly the next time I see you.
- This will pass and I will be there to ride it with you.
- I understand how you feel and I empathize with you.
- I’m sorry that you feel bad.
- I’m here to listen if you want to talk.
- I can’t really understand how you feel, but I can offer you compassion.
If he doesn’t open up to you, try reading his body language .
2. When you miss him and he misses you
It’s hard to be away from your man. So send a love text message when you are. This communication creates intimacy. You can check in with each other to find out what you are doing or what you did that day. Or you can tell him how much you love him. Daily communication helps you both maintain your connection and is a great way to feel close to your husband.
Sample Texts:
- Take random pictures of yourself throughout the day and send them to him via SMS.
- Now go outside and look at the moon. I will too so we can see it together.
- I’ve been thinking about you all day today, and tomorrow I’ll do the same.
- I miss you so much. I feel like a piece of my heart is missing.
- I wish you were with me now.
- I can’t wait until I wake up next to you again.
- I wish you would hold me tightly in your arms right now.
- The longer we wait, the sweeter it will be when we kiss again.
- I miss your touch.
- I miss the way you smell.
- I miss your smile, your kisses and your tender touch. I miss everything about you.
You can also try sending lyrics of A song that describes how it feels to miss someone .
3. When you have fought
If you’re in a relationship, you’re going to have to fight from time to time. It is even healthy to disagree and let the other person know. However, it is important to handle the post-fighting well so that you do not harm your relationship.
One way couples can hurt the relationship is to treat each other quietly after the fight. This is punishment (and can lead to emotional abuse), and if you do this to your husband, he may not tell you in the future to avoid the punishment. If you need time, tell him in person or in a text that you need a day to sort this out and that you are sure everything will be okay by then. If not, you can talk more about the problem when you are not angry.
It’s not okay to mention your men’s names during or after a fight. Some people can’t get over being called cheap, stupid, a bastard, or whatever. Instead of resorting to that, talk about what bothers you and make suggestions.
Sending a love text message to your man after a fight is not rehashing the entire fight, but simply reminding him that you love him despite the fight you just had.
Sample Texts:
- I hope you can forgive me. You mean everything to me.
- I’m sorry. I need to be in each other’s lives.
- What can I do to be in your arms again?
- I’m sorry we’ve been fighting. I just want what’s best for both of us. I hope you can forgive me.
- I know you’re still angry. But when you get a chance, please think of all the good times we share and how great our future can be. I’m sorry.
- It breaks my heart to see us struggle. Let’s put this behind us so we can look forward to better times.
- I want to put an end to all our fighting. I will stop blaming you for our problems.
Of course, it’s always a good idea to find out why you’re fighting. Do you have trust issues? Do you need to fix problems with money or family? Learn more Here.
4. Before going to bed
If you send your man a love text before bed, you can let him know you are thinking about him. He will feel loved and should have some sweet dreams.
Sample texts:
- I couldn’t go to sleep without letting you know how much I love you.
- Every day I love you more and more. I can’t wait until tomorrow to feel the love again.
- Good night my darling. Sleep well and dream of me.
- You mean the world to me. Dream sweetly.
5. When he wakes up
Let him wake up with a sweet love text message from you to let him know you are thinking about him. This simple gesture from you can mean a lot to him and should put a smile on his face.
Sample Texts:
- Good morning darling!
- Good morning, handsome!
- Good morning. I love you!
- Ooh, the hottest guy in the world is up now.
- I woke up thinking about you, and I wanted to let you know.
- Today is going to be a great day because I get to see you.
- Hope your day is perfect.
- I had a dream about you last night.
6. If you know he needs your support
Sometimes we need support from another person. This is true for your boyfriend, too. When he needs support, you can let him know you are there for him. But men usually handle stress and problems differently than women. Women tend to gather and talk things out, but men often want to figure out the problem themselves. A love text message of support should let your man know that you are there when he needs you. If you smother him during this time, he may feel weak, which will make him feel worse. Gauge what he wants based on his response to your texts.
Sample texts:
- I’m here to listen when you need me.
- Let’s just hang out tonight and do nothing.
- I think you’re great.
- I believe in you.
- I have your back.
- I understand if you need time to solve your problem.
- I know you can handle it.
- Think about how great you are.
It is in your power to send your man a love text message at the right time. This is a great way to strengthen the bond you both share. Just be careful not to bombard him with messages, as this can have the opposite effect. But everyone wants to know that someone cares.
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